Monday * August 29th 2016

Helping and Loving an Older Dog…

As many of you know, I have a beautiful terrier-mix named Cali

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I have to say that Cali is the “love of my life.”  She was rescued from a local humane society at six weeks old in October of 2001.  That means she was most likely born about this time of year which makes her fifteen years old.

Not to be sappy and/or syrupy, but having Cali has changed me – for the better.  She’s been a loving and stabilizing force in my life.

However, she’s an “old girl” now…

She’s a picky eater, has arthritis that affects her hips, and sleeps much of the time.  I know that she always won’t be with me, but in her “senior years” I want to make her as comfortable (and happy) as possible.

Therefore, I want to share some things I’ve discovered and tried to assist her in the aging process.

  • Food

After the “big C” scare two years ago, I switched her food to Blue Buffalo for Senior Dogs.  I wanted to “up the game” and try and feed her a more nutritious food.  Previously, she had eaten Purina One and loved it.  Apparently, Cali felt that Blue Buffalo didn’t taste “delicious.”  I hand fed her, mixed the kibble with wet food, etc…  She would only eat it when she was “starving.”  Stupid me, I finally switched her back to Purina One for Senior Dogs.

  • Locomotion

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In my house I have saltillo tile floors and laminate flooring in the master bedroom.  Due to her arthritis and basic instability, Cali would “slip and slide” on the floors.  Again, stupid me.  I put throw rugs near her bed and feeding bowl.  Problem solved.  Tonight at Dollar Tree I found some baby socks with tread dots in the soles.  Score!  They really help Cali with slipping on the tile/laminate floors.  They fit “perfectly” on her feet!

  • Walking

When you have an older dog, the primary goal is to make them comfortable but allow for some “easy” exercise.  There’s a very nice park near my house and I try to do an a.m. and p.m short walk with Cali.  I know her hips are very arthritic now, and I “almost” bought something for her until I saw this video on YouTube.  (Sorry for the buzzing sound at the beginning of the video, but it goes away later.)

This is an easy “harness” to make out of a reusable grocery bag to support your dog’s hips.  I have to say I was quite surprised that it “worked like a charm!”  A woman actually stopped her car on the street and remarked that she had done the same for her aging dog.  🙂

Yes, I know that Cali won’t live forever. 

However, with a little know-how and inspiration I’ll be able to keep my “best girl” comfortable and loved in her senior years…

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More Love. Less Hate.

I’ve been home this summer…

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and I’ve had lots of time to think.

I “wish” I could say I’ve done everything I’ve set out to do in home repairs, but the summer isn’t over yet.  There are two projects that seem “overwhelming” to me to do alone, so I’ve put them on the “back burner.”

The first is to strip the sealer from my saltillo tile floor, clean it, and re-seal it with two coats of sealer.  I was “more than shocked” when I contacted a local company and the estimate was $1,200.00 – and that didn’t include my three bedrooms.  I looked online and found that I can do this myself for some mildly intensive labor and time.

The second major job is to paint the inside of my house.  I have clerestory windows in the kitchen/living room and the ceiling/walls are pretty high.  I’d like to do a two-tone for accent, but just can’t decide on a color(s).  I love the clerestory windows (and they have been UV coated), but to clean the outside I’d have to get up on the roof which I have a “problem” with doing.

Stay at home summer…

I’m happy to say that during my “stay at home” summer I have developed an exercise habit.  I go to Zumba Gold three times a week and it’s pretty fun!  I’ve also been working in my backyard with plants, etc…  However, due to our “nuclear summer,” and my lack of backyard shade it’s been a struggle.  I finally gave up and moved most of the plants to the front of my house where the sun shines in the morning and they get afternoon shade.

I do plan to winter in Mexico in my RV, and it’s been fun to search through summer close-outs and thrift store deals for things I can use on the beach.  I haven’t had the desire to keep up with my tango lessons and practice in El Paso due to the extreme heat.  We’ve actually had a respite this past week with the temps about ten degrees cooler (mid-90’s) and I’m feeling much more motivated.

Enough chit-chat – the real reason for this post…

I’m saddened to realize that we live (in the United States) in an increasingly “culture of hate.”

Every day we see the vicious and violent attacks of human beings.  I’m totally depressed (and sick) of reading the news, seeing negative commentary on FaceBook, and even hearing my neighbors spew venom.  If you’re different in any way, shape, or form many people loathe you.

I’m tired of hearing about the disrespect (and hatred) for the Office of the President (and his family), future presidential candidates, gays, African Americans, Muslims, etc…  Gee, just “fill in the blank” if you dare to be different.

We’re living in an increasing “culture of hate…”

I’m at a stopping point for this post due to my frustration.  I have so many issues about our society today that I can’t even begin to calmly articulate my feelings.  It make me want to run away and find a community of love.  However, I choose to live in the “real world.”  I don’t know what the answer is, but I know as a society we can do “better.”

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Let There Be (Solar) Light…

As many people know, I’ve decided to stay home for the summer and give Casa de Cheryl some much needed attention…

I have to say I’ve been “very good,” and have put a major dent in home repairs and upkeep.  Even though I miss my summer travels (that will start up again in the fall), it’s been nice re-discovering Las Cruces.

I’ve even taken up Zumba and try to go three times a week.  I haven’t gotten there yet, but I plan to take Spanish two days a week too.  There are TONS of classes at MountainView Senior Circle, and EVERYTHING is “gratis” after you pay a yearly fee of $15.00.  There are exercise classes, games, movies, special interest groups, and even a monthly free luncheon.  It’s also good for me in that it gives me an opportunity to meet new people.  🙂

It seems that having a “daily task” brings meaning and purpose to my life…

I “dug in” (no pun intended) to clean up my yard, and make a soothing resting space.  My latest “project” was making a cactus garden with cinder blocks.  I have to say it was fun and gratifying – although my “mature” body talked back after I lifted all that cement from Home Depot to my car and eventually to my backyard.

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Colorful Cactus in Cement!

Squirrel problem…

If you look to the far left and just above the middle of the above photo, you’ll see a drainage hole.  I have three such holes in my rock wall for drainage when it rains (which isn’t often).

I had a couple of bird feeders up, and started having a problem with squirrels.  I took the bird feeders down, but the squirrels have “tunneled” through the drainage holes and there are mounds of dirt directly underneath.  My neighbor told me she saw one jump from the rock wall up to the drainage pipe on my townhome.  Now, at about 6:00 a.m. (daylight) I hear a “tap dance” on my roof.

I’ve plugged the rock wall drainage holes with rocks until I can fabricate some sort of chicken wire cover.  As for my house, I really started to freak out.  However, today I found that Las Cruces Animal Control will lend “live traps” for squirrels (and other rodents) and will pick up the traps.

Back to SOLAR!

I like to be creative, and I just have this “thing” about solar power.  I live in an environment where there’s lots of sun, and it makes sense to me to harness that power.  So, when I’m out and about and near Harbor Freight I stop in with my 20% off coupon (and another for a freebee) and buy a two-pack of solar lights.  I like the ones at Harbor Freight because the body is brushed nickel, and the globe is glass that doesn’t etch in the sun like plastic.  A good deal at a total (including tax) of $5.09 for two.

I always carry a solar light in my car so when I visit thrift stores I can see if the light will fit the “object” I’m considering.  A little spray paint, some heavy duty glue, and some “bling” from Hobby Lobby can make an interesting “re-purposed” project.

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Total Materials – $7.50

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Total Materials – $6.00

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Total Materials – $7.00

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Total Materials – $4.50

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Total Materials $6.00

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Total Materials – $5.00

Re-Purposed Solar Lights are Fun to Make!

I plan to keep some, make some to give away as gifts, and possibly sell some when I go to Mexico for the Fall/Winter.  What do you think?

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Let’s Go to the Farmer’s Market!

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Happy Sunflowers!

It’s Saturday morning – come with me to the Las Cruces Farmer’s Market…

One of the things I love about Las Cruces, is the weekly Farmer’s Market.  It’s always a delight to all of the five senses.  As the seasons change there are different items to be purchased, as well as regular sellers of interesting items.  Yesterday I went to Dunkin’ Donuts for a large iced coffee (and a complimentary donut for flashing my AARP card) 😉 , and then on to the Farmer’s Market.  In cooler weather I sometimes take Cali because the market is pet friendly, but it’s July and she’s much better off in her favorite chair in the air conditioning at Casa de Cheryl.

You never know what you’ll see…

As I previously mentioned, the Farmer’s Market is “animal friendly,” but you don’t see many tortoises – especially on a skateboard!

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Love the July 4th theme…

Speaking of regular items…

fm02Who can resist fresh homemade baked goods?  Living Harvest Bakery mills their own flour just before baking and brings an assortment of delicious breads, pastries, and fresh ground almond butter.  The family is about as “New Mexico Nice” as they come, and will gladly engage in a conversation about their baking process.  My all-time favorite is the green chile cheese bread, but I’m trying the sprouted sourdough this week.

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A nearby grower comes over from Deming, New Mexico every week to sell hydroponic tomatoes and other assorted vegetables.  The tomatoes (on the vine and cherry) are especially delicious as well as lovely.  There’s always a little line because the produce is excellent quality.   (Yes, I purchased some yesterday.)

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Although I’ve never sampled the meat (I’m not a big meat eater) lots of people line up to this “carniceria” for fresh beef.  The owner also sells farm fresh eggs, but I’m usually not there early enough before he sells out.

The Farmer’s Market “Star”…

fm01I’ve venture to say that the “star” of the Farmer’s Market is Southwest Kettle Corn.  An interesting “aside” is that the owner was a former assistant principal at one of the elementary schools here in Las Cruces.  I once asked him at which position he earned the best salary – hands down the kettle corn business.  He eventually left education for a position with Apple Computers, but still keeps his “weekend gig.”  🙂

fm05You can barely walk ten feet through the Farmer’s Market without seeing someone munching on some kettle corn.  However, to “get the gold” you usually have to wait in line.  However, the owner wisely provides individual umbrellas for shade as you wait.  How nice is that?

Did you bring lots of cash?

You did?  Great!  Now we can visit the vendor who “re-purposes” antique flatware into beautiful jewelry.

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Bright and shiny objects…

No dinero? 

That’s OK, we’ll just take a little break and listen to one of the many buskers playing great tunes…

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Serious musician…

Thanks for tagging along and have a safe Canada Day/July 4th weekend…

I promise next time we’ll pig out on breakfast burritos and kettle corn, and see EVERYTHING!  🙂

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Making a Golden Dome of Protection…

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Not very many people read my blog since I don’t post often…

However, something happened recently that I can’t/won’t let slip by.  Many times, people that I get to know via my blog I develop a relationship with on FaceBook.  Sometimes, I feel isolated and sad so I welcome people into my life.  Up until now, this has had “up’s and down’s,” but basically I’ve had no regrets.

OK, until recently…

A man I’ve know for a while (and previously respected) recently crossed the “invisible line” between supportive friend and questionable stalker.  I know that his wife is in ill health and he is the primary caregiver.  He’s vented, I’ve vented, and although sometimes the interactions were sad I admired him.

I feel stupid because it’s in my nature to inherently trust people – at least until they’ve proven they’re no longer worth of my trust.

Bluntly, in a private chat I was asked a very personal sexual question by this person.  I’m not a prude by any sense of the word, but my stomach flipped and I was quite taken aback.

It was inappropriate…

Why did he do it?  I have no idea.  However, I was both saddened and shocked.

What now?

I “unfriended” this person on FaceBook and also blocked him so he can’t contact me there.  As for my blog, I have less control but for the time being posts will be “moderated.”  I hate to this, but I feel I need a “layer of safety” – probably unnecessary, but previous experience with evil and malicious people dictates my actions.

Yes, it hurts…

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